Monthly Archives: October 2016

Why Attend the Monster Bash at The O Zone Sat. Oct 22?

Most everyone loves to dress up and be anonymous at Halloween as it feeds our sense of adventure and mystery. And those two things alone, maybe with a little sprinkle of excitement, is what gets people thinking early about what costumes they would like to sport at The O Zone for this years Monster Bash.

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Here are a few other reasons:

 

Sexiness: It is appropriate to dress in ANY way you wish at the Monster Bash! Your costume does not have to be scary or macabre, but anything that makes you feel sexy and confident. (Psst… there WILL be prizes for awesome costumes!)

 

Adventure: You just never know what naughtiness you might get up to on a regular night at The O Zone, but on this night the sky is the limit! Use your imagination!

 

Alure: “To entice by charm or attraction”. What’s more to say? Pour it on, Ladies!

 

Mystery: With so many guests who are indistinguishable behind masks and costumes, you never know who you are dancing or flirting with! That can add an extra level of excitement.

 

Fetish: Maybe you have fantasized about getting sexy with Count Dracula or have a thing for zombies… Find the object of your fantasies in the crowd and whisper something daring in their ear. Watch out for those fangs though!!

 

Uninhibited Behaviour: Being anonymous can go a long way to calming your nerves and sweeping your inhibitions under the rug.

 

Coquettish Behaviour: Coquette is described in the Meridian-Webster dictionary as a woman who likes to win the attention or admiration of men but does not have serious feelings for them. So flirt away Ladies! Enjoy the attentions of all the other Monsters at the O Zone’s Monster Bash!

 

Excitement: So much happening on this night, so many guests (it WILL sell out! Get your tix early!!), and so many sights to see.

 

Adult Fun: Halloween is usually for children. But many of us are kids at heart, and why not enjoy it for what it is? A chance to shuck the constraints of society and break loose for an evening! (And maybe for eating an absurd amount of candy too.)

 

More Adult Fun!: This is a Lifestyle event, so make sure your costume is not so cumbersome or bulky that you can’t move around The O Zone freely, and have desired body parts available without removing the whole outfit. You know what I mean!!

 

Fill your Spank Bank: So many beautiful, sexy people in awesome costumes. Feast your eyes and fill your Bank for later!

 

Doorprizes: will be given away all night. What will you win?

 

Of course, everyone has a different reason for attending events like this. What’s yours?

New to the Swing LS? How to get started!

How to Get Started in the Swing Lifestyle

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We see so many new profiles being created on swinger dating sites, but too often these accounts sit fallow and do not help the couple who are seeking, so here is a little advice on ‘how to’ connect with other like-minded, LS couples.

1) Meet n Greets

Usually hosted in a regular restaurant or bar, this is a chance for members of LS groups to meet face to face, get to know other members a bit better, chat and have a few drinks. Meet n Greets are not meant (usually) to meet and hookup that evening: they are designed to let guests get to know others. From there, they can be invited to exclusive parties, etc.

2) Swinger Dating Sites

There are plenty and they differ from site to site and from country to country. It is probably best to stick to a site that is based in your general area (why join a site from the UK if you are in Canada? Can’t be many Canadian users there), or has a high concentration of users from your city or geographical area.

Many swing dating sites require users to set up an account before they can browse other members. Often setting up an account is free, at least for a limited time. This is to allow new users to poke around their site, see how it works, if it has users the guest would be interested in, and what capabilities and search engines it has. Usually after the initial, short ‘trial’ subscription, many sites require a paid membership to continue use. Or at the very least, the ‘free’ sites have limited capability, and paying for a membership will increase the usability of the site.

When setting up an account, most people use an alias or a screen name. Using an alias, that is, first names that are not your own, can cause confusion once you start meeting others. It may be a lot less work and confusion to use a screen name on accounts, and don’t disclose your actual names (and very rarely do swingers ever use their legal last names within in the lifestyle) until you meet someone face to face. Screen names often contain reference to a character trait or interest of the couple, to make it easier to remember them. Use some sort of abbreviated word(s) to describe you or your interests: CdnCpl4U (Canadian Couple for you) or RagingHormones, PerfectFit or BluEyes67 are examples of individual screen names. Some even use Initials. Mike and Sara might be MandSTonight.

3) Swinger Night Clubs

This is a great way to search for others to play with. Everyone at a club like The O Zone are into the lifestyle, at least on some level. Of course, not all club goers are full swap couples, some go just to dance and feel sexy, or to get sexy with their partner to satisfy their exhibitionism, or voyeurism as they can view others playing nearby to their own play area. Other guests are somewhere on the spectrum of swinging, whether it’s soft swap, voyeurism, or even just a place to play that isn’t home.

The easiest way to tell what other couples are into, well, is just to ask! Strike up a conversation, see if the chemistry is right, then broach the topic with a question rather than assuming. “Hey! You guys are really sexy! What are you into?” is a good way to find out. Afterall, they are there for (mostly) the same reasons you are.

4) Personal Ads

Less prevalent these days, as you just don’t know who will answer your ad. Many people who shop for play partners this way still meet someone new for the first time at a club or party rather than going to their home or inviting them into your own that first time. This is just good safety protocol. We see several couples inviting new couples to The O Zone to meet up for the first time. You don’t know who’s out there these days!

5) House or Hotel Parties

These parties are often by invite only, so you may have to meet them elsewhere, thru clubs, online swinger sites or ads. But once you have met and meet the criteria of the Hosts and are added to the invite list, you are golden! Be sure the groups intentions match your own.

Of course, some Hotel parties are advertised openly on swinger-specific sites and anyone can attend one of these for the price of admission. There is safety in numbers however, and these are usually quite large so there are many other guests to meet and get to know. Check out http://www.valentinesinniagara.com/ for one of ours, hosted every year by Tabota!

There are likely other options, but these are the big ones. Play safe and get the most out of life!!

The O Zone Celebrates 7 Year Anniversary!!

Well, the doors at The O Zone have been opening every weekend for SEVEN amazing years! And we are so proud to say we have met so many exciting people and have some amazing followers! It takes YOU, our guests, to keep the party going by coming back over and over again, and introducing your friends to The O Zone.
This couples club in Toronto was planned and designed specifically for adventurous, sexy couples just like you, and that is who comes to the parties at our club: couples who want to step it up a bit, and they find that The O Zone is a safe, comfortable space to do just that. They often want to explore their sexuality outside the bedroom, to expand their repertoire, to feel sexy and/or to regain that sexy sense of playfulness they may have lost over time. The O Zone provides a safe place to play, explore, watch and get sexy in whatever way works for you.
This weekend is our 7th Anniversary, and we are throwing a big party to celebrate!! We hope you have marked it on your calendar and will be attending this Gala Event! We will be serving delicious hors d’oeuvres and food all night long, and have a HUGE box of prizes to give away throughout the evening. There are body shot specials and we will be serving champagne at midnight. And our grand prize is a SIX MONTH membership to The O Zone, so you can come back as often as you’d like!
So, dust off that ‘lil black dress’, shine up those shoes and get your sexy on…. and come celebrate our Anniversary at YOUR Couples Club…. The O Zone… Where the Party Is At!! eve-1071355_960_720