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Dress to Impress: What you need to know about dress codes at swingers clubs

Swingers Club in Toronto

One of the most common questions we get from our members and people interested in checking out the O Zone for the first time is about what they should wear to a swingers club in Ontario.

Just like any other high class establishment in Toronto or across the GTA, we have a strict dress code in effect. We take pride in offering the best experience possible for our members, and this is reflected in our dress code.

Would you be interested in having fun with other members that didn’t bother to take the time to look their best? Probably not. And this is why we have a dress code in place – To make the swingers club as appealing as possible for everyone.

As stated in our dress code at the swingers club, the following items are NOT permitted at The O Zone:

  • Shorts
  • Sandals
  • Caps, Hats or Bandannas
  • Jerseys
  • Worn out jeans
  • Running Shoe
  • Any other items of clothing that we deem in inappropriate

With the exception of theme or costume parties, the rules regarding our dress code will be strictly enforced. We do reserve the right to deny you entry at the door if you don’t meet our standards. But just dress your best and you should have no issues.

As a general rule, to maximize your experience at the swingers club, and to garner the type of attention you are looking for, we say it’s important to DRESS TO IMPRESS!

Our swingers and club members have high standards and are looking for well-dressed counterparts to engage during their time at the club.

If you have any questions about your attire and what is and is not permissible at the club, feel free to call us anytime to discuss the dress code.

Why Swingers Clubs are no Longer Taboo in Toronto

Much like many other alternative lifestyles, swinging is no longer a taboo topic that is only discussed in private. In fact, it is increasingly becoming more main stream, and the fact that many swingers clubs are popping up across the GTA is proof of this.

Swinging is nothing new. It has been around for years. However, rather than swingers parties being held in private, they are now out in the open in clubs and in the public eye.

So, why are swingers clubs becoming more popular?

“I think the major thing that has changed over the years is that society has become more liberal with sexuality in general. Look at what they show on television today compared to 30 years ago. This change in view has also been applied to other areas – namely swinging,” says Mandy Tabota, owner of The O Zone Swingers Club

People are also more accepting of the lifestyle because they have been able to get over the mis-information about the lifestyle and see it for what it really is. “Swinging is about couples together exploring their sexual desires,” says Tabota. “It is completely consensual and it occurs in a controlled environment.”

Many people have a misconception that swinging is male dominated, but the truth is that women are just as much a part of the lifestyle. The lifestyle is also reflective of society in general. “We have couples at our club from all age ranges, races, and nationalities,” says Tabota.

Tabota goes on to add, “We have create a safe environment where couples can come and enjoy themselves and explore their sexuality without be judged. Couples can explore their sexuality at their own pace, and do as little or as much as they want. We have a strict “No means no” policy and we take it very seriously.”

Exploring your sexuality desires is nothing to be ashamed about and the swinger’s lifestyles is one of the many fun and exciting ways that you can try new things with your partner. You might love it; you might not, but if you have been thinking about it, why not give it a try?

Interested in exploring the lifestyle?

Here are some tips if you are interested in getting involves in the lifestyle and exploring your sexual desires with your partner:

  • Talk to your partner and make sure you are both onboard with the idea
  • Do some research and read up about what the lifestyle is all about
  • Visit the club on Newbie Night to see what a swingers club is all about – If you like what you see, give it a try
  • Explore at your own pace – It is perfectly normal for you to be a passive observer the first couple times you visit
  • Always be attentive to your partner’s needs – set boundaries and stick to them

Author Bio

Mandy Tabota is part owner of The O Zone, One of Toronto’s largest on premise couples clubs. If you are interested in seeing what the lifestyle is all about, Mandy urges people to come for Newbie Night at The O Zone on the last Friday of every month to take a tour of the club and learn about the lifestyle.

Tips for Approaching your Partner about Trying Swingers Clubs

Swinging is a great way to explore your sexual desires and it is a great way to try something new with your partner. But, if you want your partner to be on board and be willing to try out swinging together, you need to approach them in the right way and make sure it is something they could be potentially interested in as well.

Talk with your partner about visiting a swingers club

Bringing up the idea of swinging could be a surprise to your partner, and you need to be fully accepting of their reaction – whether it be positive, negative, or indifferent. If they are not on board, you need to respect their wishes. One of the main reasons that swinging does not work is because one partner has the desire to try it and the other one reluctantly agrees. But, if they are interested, then you need to talk about how you want to get involved.

Be open and honest

It is important that you have open and honest conversations about trying out swingers clubs. Take some time to research what swinging is all about and make sure that you are both comfortable with moving forward. It is also a good idea to discuss some boundaries and anything that is a concern for you.

Reassure your partner

If you want swinging to be a fulfilling experience for you and your partner you need to reassure them and make sure that you have a strong and trusting relationship. There is no room for jealously at swingers clubs in Toronto.

Explore together

It is vital that you explore the swingers clubs and the lifestyle together. It cannot be all about you. You need to make your parent feel comfortable and attend to their needs while exploring your desires. Remember, swinging is a couples adventure, not a solo one.

Visit The O Zone on Newbie Night

If you are interested in trying out swinging and want to visit our Toronto swingers club, plan to come to our Newbie Night on the last Friday of each month. Give us a call for more details!