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Misconceptions about the Swinging Lifestyle

While the term swinging is fairly common, many people still do not have a good understanding of what it actually entails. There are many myths and misconceptions around the swinging lifestyles. It is known by a number of different names such as swinging, swapping, and hedonism.

What is swinging?


Swinging can be defined as the act of sharing yourself and your spouse with another couple, or other couples, with the full knowledge and consent of all involved. It is the participants of this lifestyle who are referred to as swingers.

Who are so-called swingers?


The swinging lifestyle is not limited to one age group. People from all age, races, and social status participate in swinging every day. The truth is that it is actually more prominent than most people think. There are swinging lifestyle clubs like The O Zone in Toronto and in cities all across the world.

What are some of the most common swinger misconceptions?


Swinging is wife swapping: swinging is often defined as "wife swapping." This definition is inaccurate in that it does not explain the full range of sexual activities that swinging encompasses. It also gives the impression of a male-centric focus. This is inaccurate as swinging involves full participation of both partners.

Swingers are old people: The Toronto swinging lifestyle is often thought to be for older couples. However, the swing lifestyle is composed of people of all ages, including ordinary next-door types who exemplify marital happiness.

The swinging lifestyle is for unhappy marriages: In fact, one of the requirements for people seeking to join a swinger's group or party is that the couple must be reasonably happy in their marriage. The reason for this is that swinging should not be used as an escape from or alternative to an unhappy relationship.

Swingers are not perverts: Couples that partake in the swinging lifestyle won’t just have sex with anyone.

Swingers are sex-a-holics: Exploring your sexuality does not mean you have a sex addiction. While swingers are more free spirited, they are certainly not going around looking for sex all hours of the day.

Swinging is not about fetish: While swingers enjoy sex more than the average person, it does not mean they are into kinky sex, BDSM, or fetishes.

The Swinging lifestyle is not a giant orgy: While orgies do occur, it is not the focal point of the lifestyle. The Toronto swinging lifestyle is about choice. You can choose to do as much or as little as you choose when you are at the swingers club.

Swingers don’t just pick random partners: When couples go to the Toronto swingers club they don’t just grab a random partner. Swingers club are just like any other bar. You meet people talk to them and maybe you develop a connection and maybe you don’t.

These are the social constructions and misconceptions that give swingers a bad name. The Toronto swinger’s lifestyle is for couples that want to spice things up. It is done by choice in a very safe and secure environment. No one is every forced to do anything they don’t want to do.


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