Swinger lifestyles are for everyone
When you walk into a swing club for the very first time, you and or your partner will probably be very nervous. You don’t know anyone there and you might feel like everyone is watching you. That’s a good sign! That means you’re normal. That’s exactly how everyone feels their first time they try out swinger lifestyles.
You might expect a lot when you first come to a club and that’s probably the biggest cause of anxiety for newbie’s. As a first time visitor, wives are usually more nervous about the evening, and one sure way to add fuel to that nervous fire is for her to see her husband bouncing off the walls with excitement about jumping into an orgy or looking overly anxious about being with anyone new and that is not his mate.
The best way to approach swinger lifestyles clubs is with only one single expectation; to have a fun time together. For your first visit to the O Zone and experience with swingers, plan on having nice night and enjoy the sexually charged dance floor. This way you’ll both be completely comfortable with swinger lifestyles at the club.
The possibilities of swinger lifestyles
If you enter the club with an open mind and relax your expectations, you will probably be faced with one of these situations:
- At the end of the night after dinner and dancing, you will both go home with each other and after dancing all evening in such an erotically charged environment you will both have the best sex that you’ve had in years. Swinger lifestyles are not only about sleeping with other couples.
- While on the crowded dance floor you’re dancing together and an attractive couple is dancing beside you. Their clothes are coming off and you find their bodies rubbing against yours. You both respond by touching and caressing them back. When the song is over, both couples disappear into the crowd enjoying the excitement of this sexy anonymous encounter.
- You are both so turned on by the evening that you go into one of our many on-premise theme rooms, close the drapes behind you, and enjoy fantastic sex together by being in a different place and knowing that right on the other side of the wall, another couple (or threesome, foursome or more some) is doing the same. In fact you can even hear their sexy sounds through the walls which will multiply your excitement.
- You both know that you want to see more, but you’re not sure about how much you want to participate. So, wrapped in your towels, you enter the O Zone Lair Lounge. You don't participate, but instead you decide to observe, close enough to easily view all the exciting activities, yet far enough away to accommodate your comfort zone. You feel like you’re part of the activities though not needing to participate in them. It’s like you’re sitting in an adult theatre watching the most erotic orgy you’ve ever seen, except this time it isn’t a movie. The action is real and live in the swinger lifestyle!
- You see the couple you were dancing beside on the dance floor. They are in a room with the drapes open. You lay down beside them. You begin kissing and playing with your mate, when after a little while the pretty girl of the couple beside you gently touches your arm to extend an invitation to touch them back. You respond to her touch not really knowing yet how much touching or caressing will take place, but knowing full well that either couple can say no at any time and set any limits they desire.
Maybe the ladies only touch each other while the men each pleasure their own wives. Maybe the men are massaging both the ladies’ entire bodies or maybe the ladies are stroking the other man while having sex with her husband.
Who knows what might happen this special magical night, it’s all up to you and those involved with you. Maybe she might enjoy giving you oral while her husband looks after her other "needs". Maybe you’ll engage in full partner sharing with a complete exchange of partners. It is entirely up to you and those involved, this is your night, you set your own limits in swinger lifestyles.
