The Golden Rule: "NO MEANS NO"
Anyone may say "no" for any reason at any time even if you are in the middle of something sexual at the swingers club. If you are in a situation that makes you uncomfortable, just say "no". Do not jeopardize your happiness and satisfaction with this lifestyle, or that of your partners, by doing something against your better judgment or comfort level just because you are afraid to say no.
Always treat one another with respect at the swingers club. After all, this is a party!!!! Besides, you don’t want to be rude or judgmental, because you wouldn’t want it to happen to you.
If you are rejected, which happens to everyone, do not take personal offense. Move on.
Deal with jealousy head on. It is a normal reaction. Discover what triggers jealousy in your relationship and work it out together. It may mean modifying your activities, but your relationship together is not worth jeopardizing over swinging.
Always let your steady partner know they is number one. Arrive together, take time to caress them, touch base often, it makes one feel secure. And always leave the swingers club together.
Use your common sense and good judgment when you are involved in a swinging situation. Be kind, thoughtful, and sensitive.
Honour any and all prior understandings and rules you have made between each other, and be sure to communicate with each other openly and honestly.
Respect the guidelines you set as a couple for the swingers club and communicate them to prospective partners. Open, honest communication is imperative to forming relationships. Don’t forget to respect the guidelines of others. Don’t try to "talk them into" changing the rules because you don’t happen to agree with them.
Pay attention to body language. There is more to interaction than words. Consider the body language of the person you are talking with and it will tell you more than the conversation you are having.
Discretion is paramount in this lifestyle. Never, ever discuss details inappropriately. Everything you do, everything you see, must remain private.
Give us a call at 416-24-OZONE (416-246-9663) during hours of operation if you need more information or answers to any questions about the swingers club or our policies.