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What Type of Swinger are you? Taking a Look at the Different Types of Swingers

One thing that people often do not realize about the swingers lifestyle is that there are a number of different types of swingers. This is something important to note when you go to swingers clubs and are looking for another couple to have fun with. It is also very important that you discuss what type of swingers you and your partner will be if you are thinking about trying out the lifestyle.

There are two main types of swingers:

  • Soft Swap: While there are a number of definitions of the term, in general, it is used to mean that there will be no penetration when engaging with other swingers. This means that when you swap partners it is for oral sex only.
  • Full Swap:  As you would expect, a full swap means that you are all in and ready for anything. Depending on what you and your partner agree to, this means sex with penetration, or it could mean you are interested in getting involved with orgies and group sex.

These are the two main categories of swinging, but there are also many other variations of these.

Other things to think about

Whether you label yourself soft swap or full swap swinger there are also many other things for you and your partner to think about:

  • What boundaries are in place when you are at the swingers club?
  • How are you and your partner going to communicate at the club?
  • Will you get involved in group play? Are threesomes something that you would consider?

These are all things that you need to think about when getting into swinging. Many couples start out as soft swingers to begin with and then expand their horizons as they get more comfortable with the swingers lifestyle. When you progress at a pace that you are comfortable with, it becomes a win-win situation for everyone involved.

If you are interested in trying out swinging consider checking out our Toronto swingers club to see what the lifestyle is all about. Happy Swinging!

Tips for Approaching your Partner about Trying Swingers Clubs

Swinging is a great way to explore your sexual desires and it is a great way to try something new with your partner. But, if you want your partner to be on board and be willing to try out swinging together, you need to approach them in the right way and make sure it is something they could be potentially interested in as well.

Talk with your partner about visiting a swingers club

Bringing up the idea of swinging could be a surprise to your partner, and you need to be fully accepting of their reaction – whether it be positive, negative, or indifferent. If they are not on board, you need to respect their wishes. One of the main reasons that swinging does not work is because one partner has the desire to try it and the other one reluctantly agrees. But, if they are interested, then you need to talk about how you want to get involved.

Be open and honest

It is important that you have open and honest conversations about trying out swingers clubs. Take some time to research what swinging is all about and make sure that you are both comfortable with moving forward. It is also a good idea to discuss some boundaries and anything that is a concern for you.

Reassure your partner

If you want swinging to be a fulfilling experience for you and your partner you need to reassure them and make sure that you have a strong and trusting relationship. There is no room for jealously at swingers clubs in Toronto.

Explore together

It is vital that you explore the swingers clubs and the lifestyle together. It cannot be all about you. You need to make your parent feel comfortable and attend to their needs while exploring your desires. Remember, swinging is a couples adventure, not a solo one.

Visit The O Zone on Newbie Night

If you are interested in trying out swinging and want to visit our Toronto swingers club, plan to come to our Newbie Night on the last Friday of each month. Give us a call for more details!