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Swinger Dictionary

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There are a lot of words used in the swinging Lifestyle that you may be unfamiliar with. Here are some of those, and an explanation.

Swingers – Non-monogamous people looking for sexual interaction, at least on some level, with others that are not their spouse. Swingers are most commonly committed or married couples, but singles can also partake in the swinging lifestyle.

Soft Swap – Meaning no penetrative sex, but most other sexual acts are open for negotiation, such as flirting, kissing, oral or mutual masturbation.

Full Swap – Interested in any or all sexual acts, including penetration.

Same Room – Couples who are interested in playing with others but in the same room where they can make eye contact with their partner.

Compersion – The opposite of jealousy. The feeling of excitement and fulfillment for your partner while they play with others.

Ellis (LS) – A universal way of asking another if they are swingers. “Do you know Ellis?” Some also use “Alice”, both sound like “LS”. LS = Lifestyle

Unicorn – A single, bisexual woman interested in playing with and having sex with couples.

Bull – A single man, usually well hung, who is interested in penetrative sex with women, often while the husband watches.

Cuckold – A married man who watches nearby as his wife has sex with another man, but usually does not become involved.

Hotwife – A wife who will have sex with other men, often while her husband is nearby. A hotwife is often insatiable, wanting and needing more sex than her partner.

Monogamish – A couple who attend events to flirt and meet others but rarely play might consider themselves ‘monogamish’, meaning mostly monogamous.

Swingle – A single that wishes to attend a couples event will invite a single of the opposite sex to attend with them, and they become ‘swingles’, even though they attend the event together.

Negotiation – Speaking clearly and plainly about what it is you are looking for, listening to what they want, and agreeing to a plan everyone likes.

Comet – A person that passes through your life quickly and is gone. Comets are popular on vacation, where you may not ever see them again.

Swinger Soup – A pool or hot tub that is full to capacity with swingers socializing, flirting and playing.

We hope this list helps you to understand some of the lingo used by swingers today, and that some potentially resonate with you!

Turn Offs in Women in the Swing Lifestyle

I came across a Forum on a Swinger Dating site, and after running through more than 60 responses I figured this would be a good thing to consolidate and share with you!

The question is: What Turn Offs do you find in Women in the Lifestyle?

In most cases, I was unable to determine if it was a man or woman responding to the question, but at least a few were definitely female responses. I’m sure most of this list applies to turn-offs in women AND men, so guys, listen up too!

In the first category, these issues were mentioned often and were repeated by others.

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Bad Attitude

Predominant Turn Offs:
Poor, Pissy or Pretentious attitude, being rude
Poor hygiene, smelly/BO, smelling of smoke
Lying, spreading rumors, speaking poorly/rudely about others
Speaking badly about their own bodies, poor self-image

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A smelly habit

Things on the Secondary list were mentioned at least twice but not as often as the first group.

Secondary Turn Offs:
Clingy, jealousy, Drama Queens
Say they are ready but aren’t, can’t communicate what she wants
Strong perfume, heavy makeup, lipstick
Smelling of alcohol or cigarettes
Poor grooming, unshaved/unruly hair
Teasers, mind games
Lack of subtlety, pushy, rude, arrogance
Attention seekers, need to be center of attention
Being drunk or high

Honorable Mentions: (only mentioned in one response)
Fake nails, wigs/weaves
Jewelry like a Xmas tree
Ugly feet
Perfume and lipstick
“lacking a pulse”/dead fish

Funny that there is nothing in this list that state size, race, color, age, stretch marks, scars or any of the other hangups so many of us have are a turn-off. So perhaps the problem is our own and not that of the general swinger population. If you have low self-esteem, keep it to yourself.

It seems that most of this list is manageable, and are things one can change to make themselves more attractive. Check your attitude at the door, ditch the artificial scent (most prospective play partners would rather smell YOU than your perfume) and put your best foot forward! (of course, we can’t do anything about the feet we were born with. I think the “ugly feet” comment was probably from a foot fetishist!)

If you are new to this lifestyle, maybe this will help you in beginning your exploration.

Perhaps this insight will help you in your quest for marital bliss. Or at least swingers bliss!

Admission Prices, Deals and Platinum Membership at The O Zone

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Wallet being squeezed in a vise.

Has inflation got you down? We understand that the rising costs of living are putting the squeeze on your wallet. That’s why The O Zone has created some admission deals to help reduce that squeeze. But first, let’s break down the fees.

Friday Night Admission

Couples – $40/couple – this includes Membership on your first visit
For Member Couples arriving before 10 pm – $20/couple
Single Ladies (Unicorns) – $10/unicorn
Select Single Gents – $60/gents – arrive before 11 pm – we only allow a small number of single guys to attend Friday evenings in an effort to keep the male/female ratio at a comfortable level for our member couples

Sat Night Admission

Couples – $60/couple – this includes Membership on your first visit
For Member Couples arriving before 10 pm – $40/couple
Single Ladies (Unicorns) – $10/unicorn
Single Gents – NA – we do not allow single men on Saturday evenings

SUPER & MEGA Parties

Approximately once a month, The O Zone hosts an Over the Top party.

SUPER Parties are $80/couple and $40/unicorns with no discount offered on these nights. SUPER Parties include Mardi Pardi and Monster Bash. New Year’s Eve has its own special pricing.

MEGA Parties are $60/couple and $30/unicorns with no discount offered on these nights. MEGA parties include Toga, Valentine’s, Easter, and Canada Day to name a few.

Sorry guys, Single Gents are not allowed at SUPER and MEGA Parties.

Hot Deals

There are 3 main Hot Deals at the time of this publication. Arrive on time and mention it at the front desk to be sure you get the best price!

Member Couples Arriving Before 10 pm: (previously referred to as 10B410)
Friday = $20/couple
Saturday = $40/couple
Sorry, no discount for singles

DP Party Pass

“Double Play” means you get both nights for the price of one! The only requirement is that you tell us on Friday night before you leave that you’ll be returning on Saturday night. We’ll put your name on the list, and your Saturday admission is covered! If you arrive on Friday night before 10 pm and pay only $20/couple, that means BOTH nights are just $20! What a deal!! In the case of a 3-day long weekend, all 3 parties for the price of your first evening.

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Details about DP Party Pass.

Birthday Bash

Every month we host an Astrological Sign by inviting all members celebrating a birthday that month to attend the Birthday party for free! The only requirement is that members flash their ID to prove their birth date, and the couple gets in for FREE!! Check here for upcoming dates!

Platinum Membership

While we’re talking about admission and deals, here’s an opportunity to save if you’re a Frequent Flyer at The O Zone. Members can purchase a Platinum Membership for 2, 6 or 12 months, which includes admission to all events (excluding NYE). Talk to the staff at the front desk about rates.
Occasionally, The O Zone offers Platinum Membership specials, such as $69 for 2 months. These are only available to purchase while at specific events only, so watch Social Media for details!

So there you have it: a break down of admission fees, membership, and some Hot Deals to reduce the stress on your finances! We’ll see you at The O Zone!