In part 1 of The Beginners Guide to Swinging we took a look at how to get started in the lifestyle. We looked at the reason to get involved, your fantasies, setting rules, and using the internet to get started. Here we will take a look at the next steps and swingers clubs, finding swingers couples, and how to make it a fun experience.
Once you have decided that swinging is right for you and your partner, it’s time to start exploring and seeing what the lifestyle has to offer.
Here are 4 great tips for immersing yourself in the swinger’s lifestyle:
- Look into swingers clubs: Swingers clubs in Toronto is a great place to start your adventure. Many offer newbie nights so you can learn about the club atmosphere before becoming part of the party. These are the best places to meet like-minded swingers. The clubs are ideal for people of all ages and all levels of swinger exploration.
- Mingle with the right people: Success in swinging is about meeting the right people to mingle with. Ideally you want to find a couple or two that have similar interests and swinging rules. Remember that you don’t have to engage with the first couple you meet. Explore your options and have fun with the experience.
- Attend Parties: Swingers clubs in Toronto often hold themed parties for its members. This is a great way to explore, have fun, and play out some of those fantasies you have been thing about.
- Have fun: The most important thing to remember is to have fun with your swinger’s experience. If you are not having fun, then you need to tell your partner. Swinging must be a mutual adventure with both you and your partner getting something out of the experience. Be sensitive to your partners needs and desires and you will have fun.
This information provides you with a good base to explore your options, check out a swingers club, and see what the lifestyle is all about.