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Attending The O Zone for the First Time? Some Timely Info!

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A woman at a club having a conversation.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Just because a couple attend a swingers club or party does not necessarily label them as swingers, or indeed even interested in a non-monogamous exchange. In fact, many couples don’t swap at all, and only go to these events for their own benefits. That might be to:

  • reconnect with their partner
  • practice flirting
  • dress up in sexy outfits that they can’t wear anywhere else (costumes, lingerie)
  • Socialize with other sexy, like minded people
  • Fuel their own sexual energy
  • Increase confidence
  • See how other open minded married couples are expanding their horizons

 

One couple mentioned they go to The O Zone just so they don’t have to go to public bars or clubs and hang out with drunken young people where they might feel judged.

Communication is key here, not just with your partner but with anyone else who might be interested in you, socially or more. Talk to your partner before arriving and decide just what CAN happen on your first visit, whether that means ‘no touching others’ or ‘flirting is fine’, but clear communication is best.

You may not know what your reaction will be to seeing your partner interacting or flirting with others, so prearrange a signal that only your partner and you know that will let you express concern without alerting others to your issues.

Many couples decide to attend a swing party or club to help re-spark their sex life. It can certainly do this, but without care, it can also damage or end a long term relationship, so take it in baby steps: on your first visit, consider taking the first step only, which might be interacting sexually with your partner only. Watch others, talk about what you see, discuss with your partner the things you would like to try, dance, socialize, ask questions. On your second visit, take the next small step: maybe that’s flirting openly with others. Discuss this with your partner before making contact with others, just to be sure.

Jealousy is common in the swing community, so doing your best to keep that green eyed monster from rearing up goes a long way to protecting your relationship. Your partner should come first and foremost over any other interaction you might be able to engage in. Protect your marriage!

The respect and acceptance level of the guests who attend The O Zone parties makes everyone feel welcome and at ease, and if you have questions or concerns the owners and the Hosts are available to answer them and help you in whatever ways you need.

The club is large enough, with plenty of social areas, seating and a large dance floor so you can find your own perfect niche. Invite another couple to join you for a drink and chat away the evening, or wrap around each other and have a hot make out session. The club is there for you and your desires and only you know what those are. Be honest with yourself and your partner, communicate openly, and see where it might lead you! Good luck and enjoy!

 

Hot Deals on Admission at The O Zone!

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We understand that money is tight these days, and are trying to make the events at The O Zone as accessible as possible, offering discounted admission at regular events for existing couple members arriving before 10pm on both Friday and Saturday nights. For a limited time, our Friday B410 admission is free, but this offer will expire at some point, so take advantage of it while you can!

Have you heard about DP Fridays? In this case, DP = Double Play. While you are at the O Zone on Friday night, pre-pay only $20/couple before you leave, and your admission to return the next evening is covered! Combine that with the B410 FREE admission on Friday night, and you can get in both nights for only $20!! What a deal!

At The O Zone, we cater to open minded and adventurous, committed couples, and we hope that by offering these and other seasonal, themed or event-specific discounts we will see you in The Zone, very soon!

Poll Results: Favorite Aspect of Swinging LS

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While poking around on one of the Swinger Dating sites, I found this Poll question: “Whats your favorite benefit of the Swingers Lifestyle?”
There were so many answers on this thread, it took me awhile to read through them all, so thought I’d break it down for you here. As you can imagine there was a lot of “we love all the sex!” and “FWB”, but the rest of the answers may surprise you! Check it out!

 

-building great friendships

-meeting new, open minded people

-new experiences wouldn’t otherwise have

-fun hanging out with past play friends, knowing we’ve had sex and they think we are sexy

-having like minded friends to travel with ie: LS resorts and hotel takeovers

-watching others reactions when with my partner

-the absolute openness and honesty between us

-trusting each other completely

-swinging takes the chance of cheating off the table for most couples

-closer bond with my partner

-it’s fun, invigorating and exciting

-being around people that think the same way is awesome

-no jealousy

-club nights are nothing like ‘vanilla club’ nights, so much better!

-lack of judgment enables you to be yourself

-love to watch each other mingle or flirt with others

-watch my partner blossom under the attention of others

-variety: being with someone new and discovering each other

-Now that I know my partner is open to this, it has opened the door for us to talk about other sexual things on our minds, sharing ‘forbidden kinks’ and even exploring some of them.

-One of us loves/wants LOTS of sex, one of us not so much. This allows us to each have exactly the right amount of sex for both of us without having to cheat.

-Our largest benefit has come from the amount of comfort and honesty we feel with each other. It doesn’t just apply to the lifestyle… it trickles over into every day life and makes everything more rewarding.

-There is always going to be someone prettier or more charming, but why stray from someone that will let you have your cake and eat her… umm… I mean IT too!

 

So, what’s keeping you from having a conversation with your partner?