Category Archives: Toronto Swingers Club

Turn Offs in Women in the Swing Lifestyle

I came across a Forum on a Swinger Dating site, and after running through more than 60 responses I figured this would be a good thing to consolidate and share with you!

The question is: What Turn Offs do you find in Women in the Lifestyle?

In most cases, I was unable to determine if it was a man or woman responding to the question, but at least a few were definitely female responses. I’m sure most of this list applies to turn-offs in women AND men, so guys, listen up too!

In the first category, these issues were mentioned often and were repeated by others.

A row of smiling beings with one unhappy one

Bad Attitude

Predominant Turn Offs:
Poor, Pissy or Pretentious attitude, being rude
Poor hygiene, smelly/BO, smelling of smoke
Lying, spreading rumors, speaking poorly/rudely about others
Speaking badly about their own bodies, poor self-image

A woman in a hoodie smoking a cigarette

A smelly habit

Things on the Secondary list were mentioned at least twice but not as often as the first group.

Secondary Turn Offs:
Clingy, jealousy, Drama Queens
Say they are ready but aren’t, can’t communicate what she wants
Strong perfume, heavy makeup, lipstick
Smelling of alcohol or cigarettes
Poor grooming, unshaved/unruly hair
Teasers, mind games
Lack of subtlety, pushy, rude, arrogance
Attention seekers, need to be center of attention
Being drunk or high

Honorable Mentions: (only mentioned in one response)
Fake nails, wigs/weaves
Jewelry like a Xmas tree
Ugly feet
Perfume and lipstick
“lacking a pulse”/dead fish

Funny that there is nothing in this list that state size, race, color, age, stretch marks, scars or any of the other hangups so many of us have are a turn-off. So perhaps the problem is our own and not that of the general swinger population. If you have low self-esteem, keep it to yourself.

It seems that most of this list is manageable, and are things one can change to make themselves more attractive. Check your attitude at the door, ditch the artificial scent (most prospective play partners would rather smell YOU than your perfume) and put your best foot forward! (of course, we can’t do anything about the feet we were born with. I think the “ugly feet” comment was probably from a foot fetishist!)

If you are new to this lifestyle, maybe this will help you in beginning your exploration.

Perhaps this insight will help you in your quest for marital bliss. Or at least swingers bliss!

Admission Prices, Deals and Platinum Membership at The O Zone

A wallet with money sticking out, squeezed in a vise.

Wallet being squeezed in a vise.

Has inflation got you down? We understand that the rising costs of living are putting the squeeze on your wallet. That’s why The O Zone has created some admission deals to help reduce that squeeze. But first, let’s break down the fees.

Friday Night Admission

Couples – $40/couple – this includes Membership on your first visit
For Member Couples arriving before 10 pm – $20/couple
Single Ladies (Unicorns) – $10/unicorn
Select Single Gents – $60/gents – arrive before 11 pm – we only allow a small number of single guys to attend Friday evenings in an effort to keep the male/female ratio at a comfortable level for our member couples

Sat Night Admission

Couples – $60/couple – this includes Membership on your first visit
For Member Couples arriving before 10 pm – $40/couple
Single Ladies (Unicorns) – $10/unicorn
Single Gents – NA – we do not allow single men on Saturday evenings

SUPER & MEGA Parties

Approximately once a month, The O Zone hosts an Over the Top party.

SUPER Parties are $80/couple and $40/unicorns with no discount offered on these nights. SUPER Parties include Mardi Pardi and Monster Bash. New Year’s Eve has its own special pricing.

MEGA Parties are $60/couple and $30/unicorns with no discount offered on these nights. MEGA parties include Toga, Valentine’s, Easter, and Canada Day to name a few.

Sorry guys, Single Gents are not allowed at SUPER and MEGA Parties.

Hot Deals

There are 3 main Hot Deals at the time of this publication. Arrive on time and mention it at the front desk to be sure you get the best price!

Member Couples Arriving Before 10 pm: (previously referred to as 10B410)
Friday = $20/couple
Saturday = $40/couple
Sorry, no discount for singles

DP Party Pass

“Double Play” means you get both nights for the price of one! The only requirement is that you tell us on Friday night before you leave that you’ll be returning on Saturday night. We’ll put your name on the list, and your Saturday admission is covered! If you arrive on Friday night before 10 pm and pay only $20/couple, that means BOTH nights are just $20! What a deal!! In the case of a 3-day long weekend, all 3 parties for the price of your first evening.

Banner Ad describing Double Play Party Pass at The O Zone

Details about DP Party Pass.

Birthday Bash

Every month we host an Astrological Sign by inviting all members celebrating a birthday that month to attend the Birthday party for free! The only requirement is that members flash their ID to prove their birth date, and the couple gets in for FREE!! Check here for upcoming dates!

Platinum Membership

While we’re talking about admission and deals, here’s an opportunity to save if you’re a Frequent Flyer at The O Zone. Members can purchase a Platinum Membership for 2, 6 or 12 months, which includes admission to all events (excluding NYE). Talk to the staff at the front desk about rates.
Occasionally, The O Zone offers Platinum Membership specials, such as $69 for 2 months. These are only available to purchase while at specific events only, so watch Social Media for details!

So there you have it: a break down of admission fees, membership, and some Hot Deals to reduce the stress on your finances! We’ll see you at The O Zone!

27 Reasons to Explore a Consensual, Non-Monogamous Relationship

A sexy couple about to play together

Sexy Couple about to play together

A relationship between 2 adults is most often monogamous in North America, but why does it have to be so? It is up to the couple to decide if swinging or swapping is for them, or even if they wish to attend a Couples club. Good, clear communication is a great way to start on this road to discovery and taking baby steps along the way.

Here are some reasons why couples might explore a non-monogamous relationship.

  • New Relationship Energy (NRE) – that excitement we feel when we meet someone new
  • Compersion – the positive feelings one gets from seeing their partner enjoy sex or a relationship with another
  • Seeing partner happy/excited – many ‘service oriented’ people out there
  • Encourages fitness – we always want to look our best when dating new people
  • A place to dress up or down – dress in whatever way makes you feel sexy
  • Make friends with like-minded people
  • Practice flirting – with your partner or with others
  • Play with others without lying or cheating on your spouse
  • Improve your sexual techniques – practice makes perfect
  • Learn new techniques from others – whether by doing or by watching
  • Express your desires and fantasies without fear of judgment
  • Amplify the commitment in your primary relationship
  • Open conversations with your partner
  • Watch your inhibitions fly out the window
  • Dirty dance with your partner or others
  • Openly discuss your fantasies and desires
  • Explore your bi side while having your partner nearby
  • Encourage your partner to explore their bi side
  • Enjoy extended foreplay
  • Learn to take your time and appreciate sexual arousal and pleasure
  • Explore your exhibitionistic or voyeuristic side
  • Opens a line of communication with your partner
  • Learn to give and receive pleasure on a whole different level
  • Enjoy foreplay without rushing to the finish line
  • Act out lifelong fantasies
  • Learn to trust your partner, deepening your bond
  • Fills the Spank Bank, sparks sexy conversation with your partner

So, there are just a few reasons to explore this Lifestyle. Have a conversation with your partner, then visit The O Zone, Where the party is at!