Libra Horoscope

Libra sign depicted in blue against a black background

LIBRA
September 23 – October 22

LIBRA WOMEN: Drama is the keyword – you set the stage for sex. Intensely feminine and an instinctive exhibitionist. You feel your body was made to be seen and admired. Feel that seduction is an art, not an assault. When approached the right way, you find it easy to say yes to almost anything. Unusual control of vaginal muscles. Best sex mates: Aries, Gemini, Leo, Scorpio, Sagittarius, and Aquarius. Like any position where your buttocks are exposed.



LIBRA MEN: Looks for the whole experience, not just a tumble between the sheets. Has a definite kinky side, a voyeur and fond of the ménage a trois. He has the patience needed to satisfy. He likes women who dress well and have long hair. If a woman’s clothes look as though they are easily removed, he finds her hard to ignore. Erogenous zone: back and buttocks, especially the feel of erect nipples against either of them!

Behind your discreet elegance, which seems to dare anyone to touch you, hides a warm and expressive sensuality – Librans know their bodies and do not deny them anything. Your demands are clear: a lover who is your equal, a refined professional who will give you the dinner and candlelight treatment you always fall for, and sparkling conversation for intellectual stimulation. You get bored easily and are wise enough to realize that you need someone capable of holding your attention.

Your energy comes from your wish to please and your secret desire to conquer the competition, proving that you are the most attractive person in the game. Fortunately for the poor souls who fall at your feet, this gives you a strong sexual energy. You are sexy, using your languorous tone of voice to mesmerize your victims.

Your fantasies are closely-guarded secrets, only divulged to a privileged few who you feel comfortable with. You have very specific tastes, tenderness, and toughness in equal measures and are not averse to a little light bondage of an evening. Certainly not with just anyone, you choose your lovers carefully for their rugged charm, humor and silver tongue. Despite all the secrecy, your favorite fantasy is the tenderness with which you expect you’re chosen one to treat you to prove his love.

As a people pleaser, Libra makes a very attentive and affectionate lover. They are full of sentimental romantic notions, so be patient with them and try to fulfill their fantasies. Since Libra is a natural flirt, they like to try fun experiments in bed.

To seduce Libra, give them good old-fashioned high-class romance. You need to be sophisticated, suave, and smooth. Since Libra is naturally attractive, it shouldn’t be hard to show them a good time with style.

Code Words in the LS to Keep You Safe

Safewords are more prevalent in the BDSM lifestyle, but what about for swingers? Surely there is a time when you want to indicate to your partner that you’re a NO for what’s being offered without offending the person or couple who are offering. Maybe it’s dancing and flirting with a couple on the dance floor, and your partner is like ‘Yes? You’re interested in this person to play with tonight?” You may not want to say out loud, “No, I’m not interested” in front of them and ruin the mood or offend them. So what can you do?

Some couples have code words worked out for just such a scenario. One couple I spoke to said they use fruits as an indicator. She doesn’t like lime, so might say something like ‘I taste lime in this drink’, or ‘with a lime twist’, to indicate she’s just not feeling it with this person. With a quick comment (or even a quick whispered word “Lime” in his ear) they have communicated clearly and without offending the other couple.

Likewise, when she is interested and would like to take it further, she uses ‘strawberry’ as their positive identifier. “Boy, it would be great to have some strawberries right now!” or “I smell strawberries!” and he knows he can help move the action from the dance floor to the playroom.

Using code words between you and your partner could help take some of the awkwardness out of communicating in front of others. It’s hard to say “Honey, while these people seem perfectly nice, I’m just not interested in them.” but dropping a code word that no one but your partner knows and understand is harmless and won’t hurt anyone’s feelings.

In the kink community, they use stoplight colors to indicate a willingness to participate. Green means GO, obviously. One could use this too while at a swing club “Oh look at that couple over there. I’m GREEN with envy over her shoes!”

Yellow usually indicates something is just not quite right and is often used as an indicator that play needs to slow down. Again, in swinging this could be good to extract yourselves from play that may have already started but you no longer are feeling it, and want to stop or take a break.

And Red is an All Stop safeword. In BDSM it is expected that if one says Red as a safeword, all play halts. Both or all participants can use a safeword, not just the bottom or sub. Likewise, in the swinging lifestyle, Red can be used to indicate to your partner that ‘you gotta get me out of here now!’ or ‘I am NOT into this and I am done.’

Of course, you and your partner should have this all worked out before you arrive at a club or party, so you are on the same page and you’re not throwing out code words that they aren’t picking up on it. Use words that aren’t likely to be used at a party or event, but aren’t so out of the blue (like saying ‘Broccoli’) that the other person or couple are left scratching their heads. Also, avoid using ‘boner killer’ words or phrases, like ‘your mother called today’, or it could kill the mood entirely.

This trick isn’t for everyone obviously. But if you think it might work for you, talk to your partner about it and come up with some safe or code words that just the two of you use. If nothing else, it’ll bring you closer together as honest and open communication skills are a cornerstone for the swinging lifestyle.

Good luck and have fun!

Virgo Horoscope

Virgo sign in blue on a black background

August 23 – September 22

VIRGO WOMEN: You have no illusions about sex and wish everyone would stop magnifying its importance. Prefer men who will wait for the relationship to develop to the point where sex is inevitable. You love mutual masturbation and enjoy a little punishment, and your grace and modesty is a great turn on. You become an artist at pleasing your lover. Favourite kink: can’t truly enjoy it unless a third party is present. Best sex mates: Gemini, Cancer and Aquarians.



VIRGO MEN: Too shy to make an overture, but when the moment arrives, you had better be prepared for him to bring his pajamas, shaving equipment, and toothbrush. He likes to talk about how you like it and having talked about it, he will key in on the right erotic response. Don’t expect imagination, but he is a hard worker and is open to suggestion. His secret life: can be obsessed with pornography. Erogenous zones: his buttocks. 

 

Your contrary nature – one of the main characteristics of your star sign – is clearly present in your sexuality. You can be cold enough to freeze the most natural impulses, then without warning, fly to the other extreme and floor your prey with one swift move. Those who persevere will learn how to handle you.

You are full of contradictions and your sexual energy comes directly from these contrasts. Sexually quiet, you will occasionally explode out of your self-imposed celibacy, only to lose your enthusiasm and revert back to abstention from pleasures of the flesh. The disconcertion this provokes amongst your suitors is part of your appeal, but do not overdo it.

You love it when your partner surprises you, which explains your tendency towards passivity in your fantasies. You prefer your partner to fantasize about you, rather than the other way around (what better subject?) and have only one condition: that your lover comes up with original and unexpected ways to stimulate you.

If you are ready to be someone’s entire world, no other lover will give you such personal attention. They seem cool and calm on the surface but they are enormously sensual underneath.

However, they are not everyone’s ideal of the zodiac sign which is the best lover. Virgo becomes obsessed with one person and although their perfectionism means that life will not always be pleasant, you can be sure they fall in love for life.

To seduce Virgo, be as clean and neat and perfect as possible. They are extremely picky.