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Attending The O Zone for the First Time? Some Timely Info!

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A woman at a club having a conversation.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Just because a couple attend a swingers club or party does not necessarily label them as swingers, or indeed even interested in a non-monogamous exchange. In fact, many couples don’t swap at all, and only go to these events for their own benefits. That might be to:

  • reconnect with their partner
  • practice flirting
  • dress up in sexy outfits that they can’t wear anywhere else (costumes, lingerie)
  • Socialize with other sexy, like minded people
  • Fuel their own sexual energy
  • Increase confidence
  • See how other open minded married couples are expanding their horizons

 

One couple mentioned they go to The O Zone just so they don’t have to go to public bars or clubs and hang out with drunken young people where they might feel judged.

Communication is key here, not just with your partner but with anyone else who might be interested in you, socially or more. Talk to your partner before arriving and decide just what CAN happen on your first visit, whether that means ‘no touching others’ or ‘flirting is fine’, but clear communication is best.

You may not know what your reaction will be to seeing your partner interacting or flirting with others, so prearrange a signal that only your partner and you know that will let you express concern without alerting others to your issues.

Many couples decide to attend a swing party or club to help re-spark their sex life. It can certainly do this, but without care, it can also damage or end a long term relationship, so take it in baby steps: on your first visit, consider taking the first step only, which might be interacting sexually with your partner only. Watch others, talk about what you see, discuss with your partner the things you would like to try, dance, socialize, ask questions. On your second visit, take the next small step: maybe that’s flirting openly with others. Discuss this with your partner before making contact with others, just to be sure.

Jealousy is common in the swing community, so doing your best to keep that green eyed monster from rearing up goes a long way to protecting your relationship. Your partner should come first and foremost over any other interaction you might be able to engage in. Protect your marriage!

The respect and acceptance level of the guests who attend The O Zone parties makes everyone feel welcome and at ease, and if you have questions or concerns the owners and the Hosts are available to answer them and help you in whatever ways you need.

The club is large enough, with plenty of social areas, seating and a large dance floor so you can find your own perfect niche. Invite another couple to join you for a drink and chat away the evening, or wrap around each other and have a hot make out session. The club is there for you and your desires and only you know what those are. Be honest with yourself and your partner, communicate openly, and see where it might lead you! Good luck and enjoy!

 

Hot Deals on Admission at The O Zone!

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We understand that money is tight these days, and are trying to make the events at The O Zone as accessible as possible, offering discounted admission at regular events for existing couple members arriving before 10pm on both Friday and Saturday nights. For a limited time, our Friday B410 admission is free, but this offer will expire at some point, so take advantage of it while you can!

Have you heard about DP Fridays? In this case, DP = Double Play. While you are at the O Zone on Friday night, pre-pay only $20/couple before you leave, and your admission to return the next evening is covered! Combine that with the B410 FREE admission on Friday night, and you can get in both nights for only $20!! What a deal!

At The O Zone, we cater to open minded and adventurous, committed couples, and we hope that by offering these and other seasonal, themed or event-specific discounts we will see you in The Zone, very soon!

They Got Hitched at The O Zone!!

The themes and parties at The O Zone just keep getting bigger and better!! Recently, we had a wedding!!! The Bride and Groom are friends of the owners and asked if they had ever had a wedding at The O Zone, considering all the other events they have hosted over the years.
Of course, we rose to the occasion and decked out reception, the bar and dance floor, as well as their own little corner for their reception.
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Being an unconventional wedding already, we used the brides favorite color to accent the decor and bits of red were seen throughout the club. The ceremony was performed on the dance floor, complete with an officiant, best man and maid of honor!
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Another friend of the happy couple put together a naughty cake topper using 2 Barbie couples, and created gifts of chocolates and bubbles for all the guests.
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There was a first dance and throwing of the garter and bouquet… all the things that are usually done at traditional weddings…. but with a twist, seeing as it was hosted in a Swingers Club!
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Many couples came to see the wedding at 10pm and stayed to party and celebrate with the happy couple late into the evening, and fun was had by all! The overall theme for the evening was Sequins & Lace, considering not all attendees to the club that night were there for the nuptials. But the wedding really added a bit of glitter and glam to an already glitzy event.
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At The O Zone, we are always ready to help get the party started, and this was no exception!
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