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Leo Horoscope

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LEO WOMEN: Sleek, lascivious, enticing and lazy! Whatever Leo wants, Leo gets! Intensely responsive and there are bed partners who have scars to prove it. Your need to show off leads you to prefer the top where he can look up and admire the beauty of your body.

Best sex mates: Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Aries. Your sexual wardrobe: full of wispy cut-out bras and panties!

LEO MEN: Simply brushes aside rules and conventions. One important rule to remember about him: NEVER tease. His endurance is remarkable and he has a great appetite for making love. He likes women in the submissive position and oral sex is okay when he is on the receiving end. He likes a woman to show how much she is enjoying it. His erogenous zone: his back is particularly vulnerable.

Your devilish skill means that your substantial sexual appetite is normally sated. Your sexual reputation will always precede you (even when you try to explain it away with physiological waffle), you think sexual pleasure is the only way to a real understanding of human nature and you are on a constant quest to find yourself. Dirty work, but someone’s got to do it!

Your energy comes from your ego and thanks to your narcissism, you love to see your desire reflected in another. At the bottom of it all is the simple fact that you love to be sexy and desired – with no audience to admire and appreciate you, sex would completely lose its meaning.

Like a good Leo, you are proud of your body and your charms, preferring to be the object of Others’ fantasies than to fantasize yourself. In exchange, your partners need to match your energy and appreciate your efforts. You are not good at inventing complex scenarios, even though you like to pick unusual places and times to have sex.

For most people, this is the zodiac sign that is the best lover. They constantly burn with a fiery passion and are sexually confident and powerful. They take charge in bed and explore sexual pleasures with dramatic, large-scale flair.

They constantly shower their lovers with gifts and attention. Seducing a Leo is fairly simple; they need continuous personal attention. To get on their soft side, try playing with their luxurious hair.

Turn Offs in Women in the Swing Lifestyle

I came across a Forum on a Swinger Dating site, and after running through more than 60 responses I figured this would be a good thing to consolidate and share with you!

The question is: What Turn Offs do you find in Women in the Lifestyle?

In most cases, I was unable to determine if it was a man or woman responding to the question, but at least a few were definitely female responses. I’m sure most of this list applies to turn-offs in women AND men, so guys, listen up too!

In the first category, these issues were mentioned often and were repeated by others.

A row of smiling beings with one unhappy one

Bad Attitude

Predominant Turn Offs:
Poor, Pissy or Pretentious attitude, being rude
Poor hygiene, smelly/BO, smelling of smoke
Lying, spreading rumors, speaking poorly/rudely about others
Speaking badly about their own bodies, poor self-image

A woman in a hoodie smoking a cigarette

A smelly habit

Things on the Secondary list were mentioned at least twice but not as often as the first group.

Secondary Turn Offs:
Clingy, jealousy, Drama Queens
Say they are ready but aren’t, can’t communicate what she wants
Strong perfume, heavy makeup, lipstick
Smelling of alcohol or cigarettes
Poor grooming, unshaved/unruly hair
Teasers, mind games
Lack of subtlety, pushy, rude, arrogance
Attention seekers, need to be center of attention
Being drunk or high

Honorable Mentions: (only mentioned in one response)
Fake nails, wigs/weaves
Jewelry like a Xmas tree
Ugly feet
Perfume and lipstick
“lacking a pulse”/dead fish

Funny that there is nothing in this list that state size, race, color, age, stretch marks, scars or any of the other hangups so many of us have are a turn-off. So perhaps the problem is our own and not that of the general swinger population. If you have low self-esteem, keep it to yourself.

It seems that most of this list is manageable, and are things one can change to make themselves more attractive. Check your attitude at the door, ditch the artificial scent (most prospective play partners would rather smell YOU than your perfume) and put your best foot forward! (of course, we can’t do anything about the feet we were born with. I think the “ugly feet” comment was probably from a foot fetishist!)

If you are new to this lifestyle, maybe this will help you in beginning your exploration.

Perhaps this insight will help you in your quest for marital bliss. Or at least swingers bliss!

The O Zone’s Mardi Pardi is the Pardi Of The Year!

Poster with a lady in a mask and details for Mardi Pardi event

All the pertinent info for Mardi Pardi, Sat. March 23rd!

The O Zone is known for its extravagant parties with over-the-top decorations, and Mardi Pardi is no exception! This is one of The Zone’s largest parties each year, and adventurous couples from all over Canada and the US converge for a night of decadent and naughty fun! This year, the date is Saturday, March 23rd!

Mardi Gras is traditionally the mark of the beginning of Lent in the Catholic religion and is best known for its roots in New Orleans, Louisiana. Mardi Gras is known for street parties, opulent costumes with masks and huge parades dancing thru the streets. But it’s most known for the beads. During Mardi Gras in Nawlin’s, ladies flash their breasts to the crowds. Appreciative onlookers reward them with strands of colorful plastic beads. Often onlookers are standing on the balconies on the second floor looking down into the street.

A woman's bare breast and many colorful Mardi Gras beads

Ladies flash their breasts to earn colorful beads

The O Zone has adopted that tradition. They give beads to every male member of couples arriving for the evening. The ladies are encouraged to flash the gentlemen to earn beads. Around midnight, the Most Beads contest is measured and the winner receives a grounds pass for 2 for Sandy Bottoms Resort this summer. Last years winner had a haul that weighed a whopping 32 lbs!

Of course, this event wouldn’t be the opulent, debauchery-driven party it is without some anonymity. Mardi Gras is also known for its beautiful masks. And The O Zone’s party is no different! Many guests arrive in masks to help set the mood. Don’t have a mask? No problem!! Arrive early! The first 30 ladies thru the door will receive a beautiful metal La Senza mask! Doors open at 8 pm, so aim to arrive early!

A woman in a red feathered mask showing only her eye and red lips

Masks are an important part of Mardi Gras

The other thing that Mardi Gras is known for is it’s theme colors of Gold, Green, and Purple. The colors were chosen in 1872 and have the following meaning: Purple = Justice. Green = Faith. Gold = Power. However, you symbolize the colors, feel free to wear these, or any bright colors to add to the festive atmosphere at Mardi Pardi!

Feathered mask, hat, beads and champagne in Gold, Green and Purple for Mardi Gras

Green, Gold & Purple are the official colors of Mardi Gras

This is the 12th annual Mardi Pardi The O Zone has hosted, and they’ve got it down pat! Appetizers and food served all evening long, free beads for all the guys and free masks for the first 30 ladies, specialty drinks and music to keep you moving all night long!

Not been to The O Zone before? Check out the official site and it’s FAQ page to answer any questions you may have. Don’t worry, you won’t be the only newbie at an event here! You’ll be well cared for but our awesome staff and our regular, friendly members. Questions about the Lifestyle? Check this out!

A poster promoting Mardi PrePardi on Fri. March 22

FREE Admission on Fri. if you have tickets to Sat!

And because the fun never ends at The O Zone, they are offering a special bonus! Tickets for Mardi Pardi on Saturday night include admission to the club the night before for their Mardi Pardi Pre-Party on Friday night! Many guests stay at a nearby hotel for the weekend and sleep in Saturday morning, do a little shopping and head back to The Zone for Saturday’s party.

And of course, there are the playrooms if the naughtiness of the evening has you feeling a little randy! Many couples culminate their evening with a trip to the playrooms, but that’s totally up to you. Many couples come to enjoy the sexy atmosphere, the chance to dress provocatively for their partner and to create a sizzle in their relationship. How you enjoy Mardi Pardi, or any other event at The O Zone for that matter, is up to you and your partner.

Mardi Pardi sold out last year before the event, so book your tickets now to avoid disappointment, then start planning that sexy outfit! See you in The Zone!