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Virgo Horoscope

Virgo sign in blue on a black background

August 23 – September 22

VIRGO WOMEN: You have no illusions about sex and wish everyone would stop magnifying its importance. Prefer men who will wait for the relationship to develop to the point where sex is inevitable. You love mutual masturbation and enjoy a little punishment, and your grace and modesty is a great turn on. You become an artist at pleasing your lover. Favourite kink: can’t truly enjoy it unless a third party is present. Best sex mates: Gemini, Cancer and Aquarians.



VIRGO MEN: Too shy to make an overture, but when the moment arrives, you had better be prepared for him to bring his pajamas, shaving equipment, and toothbrush. He likes to talk about how you like it and having talked about it, he will key in on the right erotic response. Don’t expect imagination, but he is a hard worker and is open to suggestion. His secret life: can be obsessed with pornography. Erogenous zones: his buttocks. 

 

Your contrary nature – one of the main characteristics of your star sign – is clearly present in your sexuality. You can be cold enough to freeze the most natural impulses, then without warning, fly to the other extreme and floor your prey with one swift move. Those who persevere will learn how to handle you.

You are full of contradictions and your sexual energy comes directly from these contrasts. Sexually quiet, you will occasionally explode out of your self-imposed celibacy, only to lose your enthusiasm and revert back to abstention from pleasures of the flesh. The disconcertion this provokes amongst your suitors is part of your appeal, but do not overdo it.

You love it when your partner surprises you, which explains your tendency towards passivity in your fantasies. You prefer your partner to fantasize about you, rather than the other way around (what better subject?) and have only one condition: that your lover comes up with original and unexpected ways to stimulate you.

If you are ready to be someone’s entire world, no other lover will give you such personal attention. They seem cool and calm on the surface but they are enormously sensual underneath.

However, they are not everyone’s ideal of the zodiac sign which is the best lover. Virgo becomes obsessed with one person and although their perfectionism means that life will not always be pleasant, you can be sure they fall in love for life.

To seduce Virgo, be as clean and neat and perfect as possible. They are extremely picky.

Leo Horoscope

Image of a blue stylized lion on a black background.

LEO WOMEN: Sleek, lascivious, enticing and lazy! Whatever Leo wants, Leo gets! Intensely responsive and there are bed partners who have scars to prove it. Your need to show off leads you to prefer the top where he can look up and admire the beauty of your body.

Best sex mates: Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Aries. Your sexual wardrobe: full of wispy cut-out bras and panties!

LEO MEN: Simply brushes aside rules and conventions. One important rule to remember about him: NEVER tease. His endurance is remarkable and he has a great appetite for making love. He likes women in the submissive position and oral sex is okay when he is on the receiving end. He likes a woman to show how much she is enjoying it. His erogenous zone: his back is particularly vulnerable.

Your devilish skill means that your substantial sexual appetite is normally sated. Your sexual reputation will always precede you (even when you try to explain it away with physiological waffle), you think sexual pleasure is the only way to a real understanding of human nature and you are on a constant quest to find yourself. Dirty work, but someone’s got to do it!

Your energy comes from your ego and thanks to your narcissism, you love to see your desire reflected in another. At the bottom of it all is the simple fact that you love to be sexy and desired – with no audience to admire and appreciate you, sex would completely lose its meaning.

Like a good Leo, you are proud of your body and your charms, preferring to be the object of Others’ fantasies than to fantasize yourself. In exchange, your partners need to match your energy and appreciate your efforts. You are not good at inventing complex scenarios, even though you like to pick unusual places and times to have sex.

For most people, this is the zodiac sign that is the best lover. They constantly burn with a fiery passion and are sexually confident and powerful. They take charge in bed and explore sexual pleasures with dramatic, large-scale flair.

They constantly shower their lovers with gifts and attention. Seducing a Leo is fairly simple; they need continuous personal attention. To get on their soft side, try playing with their luxurious hair.

Turn Offs in Women in the Swing Lifestyle

I came across a Forum on a Swinger Dating site, and after running through more than 60 responses I figured this would be a good thing to consolidate and share with you!

The question is: What Turn Offs do you find in Women in the Lifestyle?

In most cases, I was unable to determine if it was a man or woman responding to the question, but at least a few were definitely female responses. I’m sure most of this list applies to turn-offs in women AND men, so guys, listen up too!

In the first category, these issues were mentioned often and were repeated by others.

A row of smiling beings with one unhappy one

Bad Attitude

Predominant Turn Offs:
Poor, Pissy or Pretentious attitude, being rude
Poor hygiene, smelly/BO, smelling of smoke
Lying, spreading rumors, speaking poorly/rudely about others
Speaking badly about their own bodies, poor self-image

A woman in a hoodie smoking a cigarette

A smelly habit

Things on the Secondary list were mentioned at least twice but not as often as the first group.

Secondary Turn Offs:
Clingy, jealousy, Drama Queens
Say they are ready but aren’t, can’t communicate what she wants
Strong perfume, heavy makeup, lipstick
Smelling of alcohol or cigarettes
Poor grooming, unshaved/unruly hair
Teasers, mind games
Lack of subtlety, pushy, rude, arrogance
Attention seekers, need to be center of attention
Being drunk or high

Honorable Mentions: (only mentioned in one response)
Fake nails, wigs/weaves
Jewelry like a Xmas tree
Ugly feet
Perfume and lipstick
“lacking a pulse”/dead fish

Funny that there is nothing in this list that state size, race, color, age, stretch marks, scars or any of the other hangups so many of us have are a turn-off. So perhaps the problem is our own and not that of the general swinger population. If you have low self-esteem, keep it to yourself.

It seems that most of this list is manageable, and are things one can change to make themselves more attractive. Check your attitude at the door, ditch the artificial scent (most prospective play partners would rather smell YOU than your perfume) and put your best foot forward! (of course, we can’t do anything about the feet we were born with. I think the “ugly feet” comment was probably from a foot fetishist!)

If you are new to this lifestyle, maybe this will help you in beginning your exploration.

Perhaps this insight will help you in your quest for marital bliss. Or at least swingers bliss!